Becoming new parents can be an exciting new chapter in you life. It may be a time of great joy and celebration although it can also be a time of great adjustment. Couples can benefit from learning how to take care of themselves and each other with some tips from Dr. Zeising.
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Dealing with a partner who has “character flaws”, or a “difficult personality” can be challenging but can also test the strength of your love for each other. In this article, Dr. Zeising shares that as long as you and your partner are able to take ownership for your behaviours, find a compromise and maintain flexibility, then your relationship has all the potential to blossom into something beautiful and everlasting.
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As part of the series in the South China Morning Post “Naked Truth” column, Dr. Zeising discusses the truth about erectile dysfunction. She addresses what causes it, the things you can do to help, and how having ED does not mean you have to stop having a satisfying sex life with your partner.
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Dr. Zeising spoke to the South China Morning Post and normalized the challenges couples often experience in their sex lives. She gave advice on how to cultivate sexual energy to help you get in the mood, and to rekindle the flames of desire.
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What is emotional and sexual balance?
In satisfying relationships, your partner is more than just a confidant and friend, they are also your sexual companion. Unfortunately, seriously involved couples, whether married or not, too often become so preoccupied with managing day-to-day tasks involving jobs, parenting, household duties, and life responsibilities that they treat their relationship (including sexuality) with benign neglect. Even though their relationship remains stable, they lose their spark and emotional intimacy. A healthy couple relationship promotes a vital sexual relationship that a great balance of closeness and eroticism.
Take a moment to think about your sexual relationship. On a scale of 1-10, one being complete neglect and 10 being complete immersion, where are you on the scale? Are you thinking that that you’ll tend to it tomorrow…. when in reality you’re putting it off? If so, think of one thing could you do today to give your sexual relationship, and your partner, more attention. Act on it!
The Huffington Post again reached out to me to get my take on some of the most ignored relationship issues. Couples are prone to sweep these 7 problems under the rug, experts say. Here’s a link to see what I shared:
Most Ignored Relationship Problems
I was featured in an article on the Huffington Post about couples who are stuck in sexually frustrating marriages, and who feel sex-starved. Please click the link below to read what I had to share.
HuffPost Article: How to Bring Sex Back Into Your Marriage
Do you ever feel that if only your partner would step in and give you the love you need, that only then, you’d be able to respond in kind?
Well, you may be waiting a long time. Because your significant other is probably waiting for you to do the same thing.
So how do you move past this love gridlock, where you’re both standing in your corners with your arms crossed in defiance? You risk taking the first step.
I know, it’s hard to do. You think- How do I show love and support when I haven’t had MY needs met? Well, again, you can justify your position till the cows come home, but then you will be in that exact same spot. Feeling alone. Entitled and feeling justified in your position, but alone.
So stretch yourself a bit. Think about how you could come out of your shell and towards your partner. Let some walls down. How can you share a part of yourself or your feelings? Can you be vulnerable? What is he or she needing at that moment? Is it so hard to do? What do you think could happen? You may just be surprised.
It just takes some kind words, or a small gesture of love to show you’re holding out your hand to them to bridge the gap. You may be met with a suspicious look….or one of curiosity…..because you have likely been gridlocked and so stuck in this dynamic that your partner isn’t expecting you to do anything else.
However, this can be a first step to soften the tension and help you two start to come together. And it’s from this place, once you start stepping in, that they may join you in this dance and you may start getting back what you want from them.
People will often say that cheating is wrong. However, that doesn’t stop people from doing it. I was interviewed by Health Magazine about my take as to why people cheat. Take a look! :
Why People Cheat
I was recently contacted by a writer for Prevention Magazine. They wanted some help with an article about what constitutes a healthy sex life. Click here to read what I shared:
10 Signs You Have a Healthy Sex Life